Temperaments is a psychological theory that suggests that there are four fundamental personality types which are Phlegmatic Temperament Choleric Sanguine Melancholy with clew like phlegmatic (relaxed and peaceful), choleric (short-tempered, fast or irritable),sanguine (enthusiastic, active, and social) and melancholic (analytical, wise and quiet)…
STRENGTHS OF A LOW INTROVERT(Phlegmatic Temperament)
They are …
. naturally good
. practically peaceful
. good followers
. available at all times
. not argumentators
. consistent in whatever they do
. good leaders when mandated
. natural peace makers
. not harsh
. not hot tempered
WEAKNESSES OF A LOW INTROVERT(Phlegmatic Temperament)
. They tend to be timid
. are imitators
. They can water down good plans /ambition
. make caricature of other temperaments
. They tend to watch things happen
. very slow /lazy
. They are selfish
. They are stubborn (though hidden)
. are not good initiator of programs
. They are shy
. They lack self motivation
. dose off a little while after sitting at a place
. They are yes members
. They learn slowly
. some times resist change
. They are prone to a life of compromise
. They are too simple
. tend to be poor in understanding
. They are easily deceived
. They are uncaring
. are not hospitable
. They tend to be out dated
. They are prone to dirt
. are complainant
. They tend to be busy doing nothing
. They are not friendly
. are poor disciplinarians
. They are always hidden in their shell
. They are uncommitted in life (don’t know how to do business)
. are not stingy (penny puncher)
. They are zealous or ambitious
. They are always late
NICK NAMES FOR LOW INTROVERTS(PHLEGMATIC Temperament)
. Self sufficient
. Hypocrite RESENTFUL
. Dull brain
. Yes member
WHERE TO FIND A LOW INTROVERT(PHLEGMATIC Temperament)
In the house as a wife
CHOICES OF WORK FOR LOW INTROVERTS (PHLEGMATIC Temperament) AND WHY
. Nurse-because they like a kind of group work,where they are many .
. Civil servant-because they love to do what others are doing and they are good followers
. Security man-because they enjoy doing jobs that are less strenuous.
. Pastor-Because they love to serve
. Lecturers/Teachers-because they are good teachers
. Artisan-because they are not in a hurry ,so they make out time and are doing
. Company workers-because of its communal kind of work and their good follower quality.
. Driver-because they enjoy less strenuous jobs .
. church worker-because they are usually faithful and are usually nominated for the post .
. Counselors-because they live a practical life and are always ready to sell their ideas through counseling.
NEGATIVE ATTRIBUTES OF LOW INTROVERT (PHLEGMATIC)
. They look because of excitement
. They look because others are looking not because of a special interest.
. They say yes in place of no in order to avoid much argument
LAZINESS:Because of lack of motivation,they drift through life without any goal or direction
. Because they feel cheated and complain to attract pity
. Because they don’t see the need to love
. They have no drive for companionship
HIDDEN IN SHELL:
. Because they are not sociable
. Because they see it as a way of life
NOT EASILY SATISFIED:
. Because they feel cheated
. They see whatever that happens as the same whether bad good or better
. Because they are not observant,they might not take note of it
. They are not easily stirred
. Because they feel
. They don’t forget the cheats
. They notes down and react silently and bitterly
. Because they lack emotion
. They are hardly stirred
. They are like stagnant pond,where everything fall in and stays
HOW DO I KNOW OTHER PEOPLES’ TEMPERAMENT?
There is basically one major way to know and that is through
INTERACTION AND CAREFUL OBSERVATION:
TO KNOW THE LOW INTROVERTS(PHLEGMATIC)-DURING INTERACTION
They are …
. not good in interaction,because they don’t like talking
. good listeners,while you do the talking.
. They are fond of nodding their heads during interaction;instead of verbal response.
. When interaction gets to extent of argument,they will withdraw into their shell, because they hate arguments.
. In the cause of interaction with them,you will discover that they are slow in speech(talking one,one)
HOW TO RELATE WITH A LOW INTROVERT(PHLEGMATIC)HUSBAND AS A WIFE
1. WHEN HE IS ANGRY-
Try to know why he is angry,correct the errors and pet him,Phlegmatic husband are always soft minded he will accept.
2.WHEN HE IS NOT FULFILLING HIS OBLIGATION IN PROVIDING FOR YOU AND THE FAMILY-
. Don’t push him to the wall
. Don’t call insulting names because it will worsen the situation
. Encourage him
. Remind him of things needed in the house humbly,and why they are important,they will faithfully get them for you .
. If by any chance he didn’t buy your requested needs, don’t get upset or quarrel him rather act as though you understand that it was forgotten.
. Encourage him to buy it next day or rather demand for the money to do the purchase yourself
. If he doesn’t,have money,try to understand and encourage him that tomorrow will be better.
HOW TO RELATE WITH A LOW INTROVERT (PHLEGMATIC)AS A FRIEND
. Don’t take them for granted because of their gentility.Because if you do,you might be surprised at their action one day.
. Don’t feel that they already know your needs,so there is no need to tell them what you want from them.
.Tolerate their sluggish nature;teach them,they are good students.
. Over look their stingy behavior and teach them by example,they are good imitators.
. Be patient with them when they are not living up to expectation,with time they will surely be what you expect of them.
. When they behave in a stubborn manner,try to know the cause and use soft words to bring them into co-operation.
HOW TO RELATE WITH A LOW INTROVERT(PHLEGMATIC Temperament) CHILD(CHILDREN)
. The phlegmatic child ts always timid and can be worsened,when they feel not loved,that can lead them into more mistakes and blunders.
. Always reassert them of your love and support
. Take it easy with them while teaching them because they are slow in learning
. Motivate them into high goal and ambitions.
. Monitor the kin of friends they keep,because they can be easily influenced negatively
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