Stress Effects On Sexual Life Experience

stress effect on sexual life experience

Stress Effects On Sexual life Experience is one of the major issues facing marriages and relationships. “There’s not the basic connection happening in couples, they’re not even making eye contact or talking to each other..

stress effects on sexual life experience

How does stress affect your Sexual life experience?

The stress of modern living is taking a toll on people’s sex lives, a psycho-sexual therapist has said.

A BBC Radio 5 Live online survey questioned 2,066 UK adults about their attitudes to sex and relationships.

Stress is rated as a problem in the bedroom by more people than any other factor (45%).

Relate therapist Ellen Brady said: “We see an awful lot of clients with anxiety issues – anxiety and sex just doesn’t sit together at all.”

Other factors highlighted by respondents as having a negative impact on sex includes:

  • Physical health problems
  • Mental health issues
  • And having children.

stress effects on sexual life

Only 10% of respondents highlighted social media as a problem.

However, Ms Brady said it probably had a bigger impact than most realised.

“There’s not the basic connection happening in couples, they’re not even making eye contact or talking to each other, so it’s no wonder when they get to bed that sex is difficult.”

Overall, half of those questioned said they were in satisfaction with their sex lives (50% of men and 53% of women).

However, 38% of men and a quarter of women said they were not satisfied with their sex lives.The survey suggests 58% of people are generally confident about their sexual performance.

Is it cheating?

stress effect on sexual life

The survey suggested men and women take a different view on cheating.

Three-quarters of women said they consider a partner paying for an online experience (such as cyber sex) and kissing someone other than their partner to be cheating.

But only half of men said the same.

Nine in 10 UK adults (91%) said that having sex with someone other than their partner was cheating.

But only two in five (40%) said browsing on a dating app was considered as being unfaithful.

Starting again

stress effects on sexual life

So how can you improve your sex life?

Ms Brady from Relate suggests to put a temporary ban on sex, and starting again: “Ban sex, because whatever you’ve been doing sexually it’s gone wrong.

So, you want to wipe it out and start again, and just reconnect emotionally and in terms of intimacy.”

“There’s a big gender divide on that one, because women very often want to buy into emotional intimacy and kisses and cuddles and quite often men don’t see that as a priority, they see sex as the priority.

“However in my experience it doesn’t take very long for men to actually realise that that’s what they want too..

And of course it leads them on to sex anyway because that creates the right conditions for sex to happen.”

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